I was born in white suburbia Kansas. I lived my whole life in the same smallish community. Everybody dressed the same, looked the same, and acted the same. It was bland, and to be anything different invoked fear and uneasiness. But it was home, and I suppose in a lot of ways it still is.
When I reached middle school my peers began to notice that I was different, so I did everything I could to fit in. Growing up, I didn't have much self-confidence; I knew I was different, and that wasn't okay with...